Hello and welcome!

This is the Neocities site for Somebody To Love, the Local Void system's partner (system) search server. We have several queerplatonic partners but no romantic ones, and this site and this server is intended to make it easier for us to find one!

We are 32 and gay male, so this server is only for men, male/masc-aligned people, or other gay men, but it's okay if you're additional genders, and I see transgender and non-binary men as men. It's also only for people 25 or older, as that is the youngest you can be and we wouldn't see you as a young adult. If you're younger than this but interested in being in a server run by me, check out this site.

While I am predominantly seeking a romantic relationship, I am open to making friends or finding QPPs or kink partners through this server. It all depends on what naturally happens as a result of us being in the same space together.

Because my system is aroace-spec, we sometimes have to wait a while to know someone, discover they have attraction to us, and/or actively go through the motions of romantic activity with them before genuinely developing romantic feelings for them. This is a little unconventional, but in some respects, so are modern approaches to finding partners like using Discord for that.

We would want partners to see us as both individuals and a collective and be dating both the entire system and individual alters within it. We would also need them to be understanding of the place our pre-existing QPRs, in-system relationships, and fictional partners have in our lives.

If all this sounds good, check out the about, the rules, and more information available in the links, and join when you are ready!